Paper lanterns in lots of sizes. Strings of white Christmas lights. Some cool theme/motif that is both whimsical and edgy.
Navy blue and lime green. (I thought green bouquets were stupid until today -- but they're SO PRETTY with the navy dresses!!) Cindy as matron of honor, Deborah as bridesmaid. Tulle.
Really fun shoes -- haven't yet decided on Converses or really hot, classy heels.
Something more interesting than cake. Early spring. A FUN reception, not a dumb, boring one -- and probably outside.
Oh, and the love of my life. Of course.